Relationship (same on each post):
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. Though we already had a Domme/sub relationship to a degree, this change is our relationship is much deeper and meaningful than just as being Domme to my submissive nature.
My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”. She prefers the name “Masteress” as opposed to the more common term “Mistress”. i used to refer to MD as my Mistress, but with my new role, She now prefers the more controlling sound of “Masteress”. As mentioned above, MD now has total control of all decisions. In regards to finances, my paycheck is now being deposited directly into Her account and i receive only a small weekly allowance to buy my lunches at work. i am required to be MD’s servant and make sure Her needs are always my first priority. i am always to defer to MD and never to argue or contradict Her. There are required chores every day that are tracked on a white board, and i am to mark them off as completed. Sexually, MD’s pleasure is paramount. Though She has allowed me one orgasm so far, it has been made clear to me that those will be limited in the future. If i break any rules or don’t complete assignments, i am given demerits. These will be used by MD to determine punishments and limit my privileges. She has informed me that i will be getting another tattoo to mark our new relationship as the Masteress of the house. (i have one already signifying being cuckolded by Her.)
These are some of the current rules that MD has implemented. (Infractions to the rules will result in one or more demerits)
-i am only allowed to wear panties and women’s socks every day (and sometimes when working outside a sports bra). She said will be buying me women’s deodorant in the near future to wear.
-i must keep body hair shaved clean around my groin, chest and underarms. (MD is still considering whether to make me shave my legs.)
-MD chooses or approves my clothes i wear every day.
-i am not allowed to go anywhere without MD’s permission. i must go straight to work and straight home unless She has assignments for me to complete. If i want to request to stop somewhere, (ex., get gas or cleaners) i must request this privilege 48 hours in advance.
-i am to mark completed assigned chores on the marker board before coming to bed. (Any not completed or not marked assignments are a demerit.)
–my bedtime is 9:00 on Sun-Thur and 9:30 Fri-Sat or earlier if she chooses to go to bed before then.
–MD chooses what i eat at meals (at home and in public) and I must track everything i eat in a fitness program which She can inspect.
–i have assigned weight loss goals to achieve each month until i hit my target weight.
–At restaurant’s MD may ask me what i might like to eat, but She makes the final decision and orders our meals and drinks.
–All decisions around money are MD’s and She pays at restaurants or stores since i have no access to money.
–i may not request any alcohol but MD may allow me a drink at Her discretion.
–When told to do something, i must stop whatever i am doing and do it immediately.
–When i get home or MD gets home, i must get down on my knees and kiss MD’s feet as a sign of my recognition of Her authority.
–Every morning MD has a stamp with the date and MDsh and She stamps me somewhere on my body as a reminder to me that i am Hers.
–Any purchase i do make, i must get a receipt and turn them over to Her at the end of the day.
–Upon arriving home from work, i must put on my lacy apron (with MDsh on it) and put on lipstick as my sign of being marked by Her.
–i am only allowed to cum with MD’s permission.
–i am required to sit down to pee when at the house.
–i am to serve her meals first and wait for MD to taste and approve before i can make my plate.
–When at home, i usually have to sit on the floor at MD’s feet when watching TV or when having discussions.