Our Relationship – this paragraph is the same each posting: As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.
MD is training me how She wants me to behave in certain situations and what the protocols are to serve Her. For example, when we are inside and having a discussion i am to sit at Her feet, looking up at Her. If i am home when She gets up, i am to be on my knees in a bowing position, head down and hands outstretched. She will come and stand on my hands and say “good boy” and I am allowed to kiss Her feet and thank MD for allowing me to serve Her that day.
When serving MD drinks or bringing Her food, MD has also established certain requirements. Almost always i am to have my MDsh apron on and bring Her the food or drink on a serving tray. MD will have me bring the tray to Her and then bend over slightly at the waist with my head and eyes down. When She is ready, MD will either motion or tell me to go ahead and serve Her. i then am to wait until MD has a bite or a sip to see if it is satisfactory. At meals if She is pleased, then She will tell me then to go fix my plate and come join Her. i have noticed lately, that sometimes when i come to serve Her, MD will have me wait a few moments before She acknowledges me. MD may be busy reading or working on something, but She doesn’t stop for me, i am stand there quietly until She acknowledges me.
Both my texting and responses have also changed. No longer is it “yes”, “no” or “ok”. It is now the answer with an acknowledgement of who She is, e.g., “Yes, Ma’am” or “No, Masteress”. When going somewhere, I am to open the door for Her and wait until She is ready and then i can close the door and load the car if necessary.
MD has also been teaching me how to avoid i contact when helping Her dress. First a confession, i love to see MD naked! But, with that being said, i am now no longer permitted to look upon Her without permission. Lately MD has been having me help dress and undress Her. When doing so, i must either keep my eyes up looking into Her eyes or to the side. It is so very frustrating to know that MD is naked and right there in front of me and not be able to gaze upon Her!
i love the way that MD is training me to be a proper sh and the fact She has such high expectations for me. I know She has much more to teach me and Her expectations are only getting more strict.