Our Relationship- this first paragraph is the same on each post:
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.
This blog began as a way for me to chronicle the changes in my marriage which began a few weeks ago. The intent is not to see how many views it receives or to attempt to excite or titillate an audience. In fact, i have no idea if any one reads it as i don’t publish the blog, know the password, nor even where the link is to it. i email copies of my blog to MD and She then chooses if She wants to publish any of them.
MD and i live in a small community outside of Fort Worth, TX. My commute is about 45 minutes each way. i used to spend the time to work and home listening to sports radio, but that too has changed. Most of the time, especially in the mornings, i don’t even turn on the radio. The travel time is my “writing” time. (No, i don’t write while driving, though i am shocked by what people do while driving a car!) It is my time to reflect, ponder and create my blog in my head. i then type it later that night if i finish my chores in time or first thing the next morning as i am doing today.
My intent of the blog is not to champion any cause or try to influence anyone to take up the lifestyle that MD and i have chosen for us. In fact, i would argue against it for many people. To take this step you must both have a huge amount of trust in each other and your relationship. Not only do i have to trust MD that She will watch over and protect us, but MD has to trust that i am not going to “change my mind” and rebel against Her authority down the road. When just being in a Domme/sub relationship at times, you are only sub to a point. You can choose when not to be sub or what areas of your life you want to hold back. In a WLM that can’t be the case. i am striving to submit all areas in my life to MD’s leadership and authority.
If you would have asked me a couple of months ago how i would describe my marriage i would have said, “incredible”, “fantastic” or “amazing”. But in the past couple of months i am more in love with my Wife and even more ecstatic to be married to Her than ever before. i do not have the words to adequately describe how i feel about Her and us, as i have run out of superlatives. This blog is a way for me to try to communicate what is going on in my head and my heart as well as describe the changes in our lives. So if you do have any questions or comments, please feel free to address them to MD, as along with Her title of Masteress, She is also the Editor and Chief Publisher of the MDsh blog.