Away But Under MD’s Control: i used to travel a lot for work. i spent more nights in hotels than i care to remember (or even could remember!) Fortunately, when i changed jobs a few years ago the amount of travel i had to do was largely curtailed. This week though, i had to travel out of state on business. Lately when i have had to travel for work, MD has planned it so She can sneak off with me and we make it into a mini vacation. Unfortunately, that didn’t work out this time. We realized that this was the first time in a year we have spent the night apart, so this is something fairly uncommon.
Since this is also the first time that i have traveled since we committed to a WLM, there were new expectations for me this time.
• MD should always know where i am at – i texted Her when i left work; when i got to the airport; upon arriving at my destination; and upon reaching the hotel.
• “doveryai, no proveryai”- Is a Russian saying that means “trust but verify”. MD should always be able to verify that i am where i say I am going to be. If i tell Her that i am checked in the hotel and in room #101, MD should be able to call that room number at any time and i better answer. If i need to go down to the restaurant for dinner, i make sure MD knows when i leave and when i get back.
• Home rules still apply – my 9:30 bedtime still applies. (i now have 30 minutes later for summer hours). i still must wear panties and of course i am not allowed to play with myself or get hard. i am not allowed to watch HBO, Cinemax or any other “adult” entertainment. No alcohol; i must sit to pee and if i am not sure of something i am to get MD’s permission first.
i write this not as a complaint about my restrictions, but to celebrate the joy of being MDsh! In my previous marriage i loved to travel because it was a chance to get away and “be free” – now the opposite is true. Though i hate to travel without MD, i love knowing that no matter how far away i may be physically, i am still under Her control.
PS. I wrote this blog while away. i got home late last night from being gone two days to find a sink full of dirty dishes and it made me smile. Even though i may not have been home, MD’ expectations did not change.
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.