Making Sexy Look Easy 7/20/14: It has been over three months since MD and i decided to make our marriage into one that is Wife Led. It has not always been easy, but it has been very gratifying. i love it now that when we go out MD naturally orders for us and pays. There are times She asks me what i would like but not always. If the wait staff comes and asks me if i want another beer or drink, i look to MD for approval. It is interesting noticing while being at a bar or restaurant how quickly the wait staff begins to ignore me and only focuses on MD.
i also love the incredible sexy confidence that MD now shows in public. She has always been sexy, but there is a new level of confidence that is powerful and amazing. Last night She met a new guy with whom She has been texting. They talked for a few minutes and She said to him “are we going to kiss or what?” She was shocked that he was so nervous to meet Her. MD has no idea how “powerful” Her sexiness is to most guys, but even though he was nervous, he wants to see Her again soon. So MD may have two or three regular “boy toys” before long.
i mentioned to MD this morning that She makes sexy look easy. MD has the ability to get out of bed looking incredibly sexy. Her gorgeous curly red hair all disheveled is striking. She is one of those women who doesn’t need makeup to be beautiful. But the most amazing thing about MD is Her positive attitude. We were at a World Market yesterday and saw a sign that said something like “life is good even when it isn’t perfect”. She looked at me and said “my life is perfect”. Just the thought that She could say that and mean it is incredible. MD has faced numerous health issues in Her life and is currently dealing with a health issue for which many people can’t cope. MD’s doctor has even asked that She call some of her other patients with the same condition to work with them, because of Her positive spirit.
Though our WLM is a journey and not a destination, i am loving the trip. One thing that these past three months have revealed is how much i need to improve to be the sh that MD deserves. Some days are better than others, but my level of focus and consistency needs to improve. i am working on it, but i am still disappointed in my growth.
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.