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Housework: 8/14/14: As i mentioned in my previous blog, i have done some traveling lately. On this last trip my flight was delayed and i did not get home until the next day. One of the first things i noticed was that MD had done some of the dishes while i was gone and i was really bothered by that. Housework is my responsibility and i felt like i let MD down. i realize that i had to travel for work and couldn’t control flight delays, but that is not the point. It is my job to do the dishes and She had to do them instead.
That is big step for me. We have always shared housework responsibilities to some degree, but now i see them as totally my responsibility. Cleaning, washing, vacuuming, etc., are all things i can do for MD and i now want to do them. Now, my standards for cleanliness have never been has high as MD’s, so my challenge now is not only do the housework, but to do them at a high level. It is not about meeting my standards but meeting Her’s. From one who grew up in a home where Saturday mornings were housecleaning days and dreading it, since i wanted to watch cartoons, to now being the one who almost looks forward to putting on my sissy apron and cleaning. i guess i am finding joy in my new role as MD’s maid.
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.