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Day 72: 8/17/14: The word “diet” has different meanings depending on one’s perspective. For some when they think of diet it means restricting what they eat for a period of time, usually to lose weight. They may cut out soft drinks, sugar, etc. for a period of time and then go back to them. For others diet means a way of eating in their daily life. MD and i began making changes to our diet a couple of years ago. Where i used to eat a lot of meat, breads, and starches, we have gone to a much more organic, vegetarian, and unprocessed type of diet.
If you told me two years ago, i wouldn’t be drinking any diet cokes or eating almost no red meat, very little chicken or pork, and a very limited amount of sugar, bread, rice and potatoes, I would have told you that I would be starving and miserable. Thankfully that has not the case. From someone who barely ate veggies, to now someone who gets a salad or veggie plate several times a week it has been an amazing transformation. I have lost over 50 lbs, have far more energy and feel better than i have in as long as i can remember and i really don’t miss those foods. When i am out at a restaurant, it is not an issue to order healthy options (or technically MD will order them). Now don’t get me wrong, a steak still sounds good and i love the flavor, but i don’t miss not having it.
The reason i bring this up is to try to relate it to what i am going through with the chastity. In previous chastity periods, it was for a period of a time and then we resumed our normal sexual relations. It was similar to going on a diet. Restrictions for a while and then resume previous behavior. This time it is a change to our way of life. Our “sexual diet” is changing; and just like when we changed our food diet, from where we started to where we are now is vastly different. I am already seeing the same thing happening in our sex life.
MD has played with other guys in the past, but i would describe it in more of a “dessert” style; something to add to what we were already doing. Now it feels it is more of the main course. She wants and desires regular sex with other guys. i am now more the appetizer – Her oral lover.
But i have noticed, my tastes are changing as well. i am not nearly as sexually frustrated this go around as in previous chastity periods. i guess it is because i am not anticipating being released. Whether MD allows me on occasional orgasm or inside Her in the future, the reality is that this is my new normal. Don’t get me wrong, i still find MD incredibly sexy and would love to have sex with Her, but i don’t focus on that as i did previously. i am finding that i don’t get hard near as often as i did just a few short weeks ago. There is far less of a sexual frenzy, excitement or frustration that i experienced in the past and am far more “calm” in my new lifestyle.
My sexual appetite is changing, just as my physical one has changed these past two years. i have no doubt that in a year i will look back and can’t believe how much more it will have changed.
* Last time i came- June 6
* Day 2 – June 8
* Day 12 – June 18
* Day 22 – June 28
* Day 32 – July 8
* Day 42 – July 18
* Day 52 – July 28
* Day 62 – Aug 7
* Day 72 – Aug 17
* Day 82 – Aug 27
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.