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MD’s sh: 8/25/14: When i think of the different roles i serve as sh to MD it is amazing. As Her hubby, MD has given me several distinct ways to relate to Her.
Sissy – MD likes me to be Her sissy. i wear panties, nightgowns to bed, frilly aprons, lipstick, bras, heels and other articles of women’s clothes up to and including a wig sometimes. It is impossible to feel powerful and masculine in high heels, lipstick and a nightie. It just reinforces the fact that She is the Dominant figure in our family.
Sexy – MD finds me sexy. She says that She loves the way i make Her feel when i touch Her. This is exciting to know that i still turn Her on even after 16 years of marriage. i love the sensual ways we relate in bed, even if intercourse is no longer on the table. i love being able to lick, touch and cuddle with Her.
Sub – In spite of everything else, at times i am still Her sub. When MD gets me hard and brings me right to the edge of climaxing and then stops just to watch me twitch or puts a butt plug in me and makes me wear it all night, She does it because She loves the power She has over me. There is the Domme/sub role we still enjoy.
Slave – A slave is the property of an owner. Often times, an owner will mark their slave to show everyone that he is Her property. MD has already given me a Prince Albert piercing and two tattoos indicating that i am Her cuckold, chastity slave. She indicated that She is working on a third tattoo design to mark the start of my new life of celibacy. It is an amazing feeling to be taken to a tattoo shop and have your Wife tell the artist how She wants him/her to mark you.
Servant – There are many different types of servants. Some choose willingly possibly as an occupation and some choose an indentured servant hood life where one agrees to be a servant for either education or other reward. i guess that is how I most often feel. i was given a choice and willingly chose to be MD’s servant. For that i am given Her direction, leadership, guidance, protection and most of all Her presence. Once you enter a contract of being an indentured servant, you must live out the contract. MD is drawing up our contract. It will be very specific in what i am choosing and what our roles will be. Once it is signed, it will be a legal agreement between us. It will say, that i am choosing to be MD’s servant for the rest of my life or until She chooses otherwise. And under that agreement, i will obey and serve Her however She demands. In addition, i will have very limited rights and will face punishment when i don’t live up to Her expectations. There will be no ambiguity. MD will be my Masteress and i Her servant.
Safety Monitor – The one other role i play is MD’s safety monitor. This is the only part of our life i have any “veto” power. MD has some health conditions and sometimes will try to push past Her limits. She has given me the authority to question or stop Her if it could be a matter of Her safety or health. i take that responsibility very seriously. i also want to protect MD at all costs so as Her protector, if there is any i feel might be harmful to Her, i have the right to speak up. i try to be very judicial when i say something, because it still must be in respect to Her authority, but we have agreed that this is one area, i do have some control.
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sexy”, “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.