Normal? 10/18/14: Very rarely does MD allow me to see how people respond to any of my posts, but She did show me one person’s reply to my posting of “Pity-ful Sex”. The guy said that he and his wife had been living in a WLM for many years and that he had not been allowed inside his wife for the past 19 years (since the birth of his second child). i was amazed by his story and wondered how he could manage going that long. Then it dawned on me, his experience which seemed so “un-normal” to me, but my experiences feel very normal. i have seen posts of another couple practicing WLM where the wife will beat her husband with a cane on a regular basis till he is screaming in pain and has whelps. To me that is not “normal” behavior, but i have no doubt that some people read my blogs and can’t imagine living like this. So what is normal? i guess normal is what works for the couple.

Reading some WLM books, some wives cuckold their husband but though many don’t. Some wives believe in allowing their hubby’s to have regular sexual release and some don’t. Some use strong corporal punishment and some use more of a “talking” punishment. i guess each wife needs to choose what she wants and what her husband can handle. MD has chosen to use cuckolding and withholding regular orgasms for me. She does use corporal punishment on me both on a regular weekly basis and then whenever else She feels it is necessary, but not to the extreme level that others may choose. She also likes using humiliation as a tool in training me. MD will remind me how much bigger and better her “boys” are at pleasing Her than i was. She will call me Her little “pussy boy”, dress me up in women’s clothing and make me sit outside with Her, or jack me off right to the edge of cumming and then telling me that i need to roll over and go to sleep.

This is our “normal” for whatever normal is in a WLM. i love it and feel that our relationship is healthy and strong and more vibrant than any other couple i know. I do think it would be interesting to have a convention sometime where WLM couples met and the wives met in one room and the hubby’s met in another and shared their experiences and lifestyle stories. i wonder what would be the “norm” from those meetings?

Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.

Pity-ful Sex: 10/12/14: A few months ago MD announced that from now on the only time i would be allowed to have intercourse with Her was on our anniversary. MD decide that She would show pity on me once and year and remind me just how wonderful sex with Her was. i have been anticipating/dreading this day for a while – anticipating how wonderful it would feel to be inside MD again, but dreading knowing that once it was over, it would be a full year until i had the chance to relive that joy again.

Last night after we got home from dinner, MD told me to wait in the living room while She went and got ready. In a few minutes She came out wearing a purple night that is one She usually reserves for one of Her “boy toys”. It is lace and somewhat sheer in the front and a large cut out in the back. She looked amazing! She took me by the hand to our bedroom and laid on Her back and had me begin licking Her. i went as slowly as possible enjoying every taste of Her until She grabbed my head and pulled me deep into Her pussy while She came.

MD then smiled and said it was my turn. She told me i could get inside Her, but i wasn’t allowed to use a condom. Now, it has been over four months since i have been allowed inside MD and it has been almost a year since the last time i was allowed to have sex with MD without using a condom. Normally, She has me wear one so i last a little longer and maybe She can cum a couple of times. This time though, She wasn’t going to give me that option. i slowly entered Her wet, tight pussy. The sensation was unbelievable. My mind was racing, thinking how good this feels and trying to cum too fast.

MD laid there and smiled at me while i entered Her. i tried to go slow at first but the pleasure became too great and i couldn’t help myself. It was over in less than a minute. The joy, the ecstasy and the crushing realization that it was done. MD, just smile and caressed my head as i laid there whimpering. MD didn’t even get close to cumming. MD has had four other lovers since the last time I had been inside Her. They all have made Her cum, and two of which She described as some of the best sex She has ever had. It was like the JV playing the Varsity. She gave me the condolence smile as if to say, “That was a nice try”.

After a minute to compose myself, MD told me to get down between Her legs and lick Her clean. That is one of Her requirements, when i do get to cum inside Her, i must lick my cum out and clean Her. After licking her clean, i got Her a wash rag and towel. She had me turn over and cuddled up behind me and held me while i drifted off to sleep. My thoughts were how wonderful it felt to be back inside Her, how lucky i am to be MD’s sh and i can’t wait till next year!

Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.

6 Month Anniversary: 10/7/14: It has been six months since MD and i began our journey of a WLM and what an incredible time it has been. i can’t imagine being in a better place. It has not always been smooth transition, but it has been the most exciting time of my life. In addition to the half way mark of our first year of WLM, in just a few days we will celebrate another wedding anniversary. i am very fortunate that MD has allowed me to become Her sh. i know i have much to improve on, but i can’t wait to see what the next six months holds.

Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.

Broken Mirror: 10/2/14: i told MD that all of Her mirrors must be broken, because She obviously doesn’t see what everyone else sees when they look at Her. This week She had to go to a drug store for a prescription. While standing in line MD noticed two guys staring at Her. She also caught a third guy in the big mirror over the counter staring at Her ass. MD said the guys weren’t even trying to be discreet about it. What was really funny was that there was a 20 something woman in shorts and workout top in front of MD and she was getting pissed off that the guys were staring at MD instead of her. MD was perplexed on why the guys were staring at Her, an almost 50 year old grandmother, (yes, MD and I are grandparents), instead of the 20 something.

i have tried to explain to MD how beautiful and sexy She is, but I really believe She doesn’t understand it. i have told her that there are beautiful women who aren’t sexy and there are sexy women who aren’t necessarily beautiful. But She is one of the rare women who is both sexy and beautiful and guys are going to stare at Her, no matter Her age. i wish we could just go get Her new mirrors, but that hasn’t worked in the past. i guess i will just continue to enjoy watching guys check out my hot wife!

Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.