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Normal? 10/18/14: Very rarely does MD allow me to see how people respond to any of my posts, but She did show me one person’s reply to my posting of “Pity-ful Sex”. The guy said that he and his wife had been living in a WLM for many years and that he had not been allowed inside his wife for the past 19 years (since the birth of his second child). i was amazed by his story and wondered how he could manage going that long. Then it dawned on me, his experience which seemed so “un-normal” to me, but my experiences feel very normal. i have seen posts of another couple practicing WLM where the wife will beat her husband with a cane on a regular basis till he is screaming in pain and has whelps. To me that is not “normal” behavior, but i have no doubt that some people read my blogs and can’t imagine living like this. So what is normal? i guess normal is what works for the couple.
Reading some WLM books, some wives cuckold their husband but though many don’t. Some wives believe in allowing their hubby’s to have regular sexual release and some don’t. Some use strong corporal punishment and some use more of a “talking” punishment. i guess each wife needs to choose what she wants and what her husband can handle. MD has chosen to use cuckolding and withholding regular orgasms for me. She does use corporal punishment on me both on a regular weekly basis and then whenever else She feels it is necessary, but not to the extreme level that others may choose. She also likes using humiliation as a tool in training me. MD will remind me how much bigger and better her “boys” are at pleasing Her than i was. She will call me Her little “pussy boy”, dress me up in women’s clothing and make me sit outside with Her, or jack me off right to the edge of cumming and then telling me that i need to roll over and go to sleep.
This is our “normal” for whatever normal is in a WLM. i love it and feel that our relationship is healthy and strong and more vibrant than any other couple i know. I do think it would be interesting to have a convention sometime where WLM couples met and the wives met in one room and the hubby’s met in another and shared their experiences and lifestyle stories. i wonder what would be the “norm” from those meetings?
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.