Big Black Book. 6/17/15:  Are you old enough to remember people carrying little black books to keep telephone numbers and notes on dates? MD now has a “Big Black Book”. MD has had so many guys contact her the past couple of weeks, She was having trouble keeping up with the ones She was replying to and who She was interested in talking. She found a large black notebook and now has a page for each guy. She keeps his name, where he contacted Her from and identifying characteristics. It is fun to watch Her flip through the book trying to find the right guy when one texts or emails Her.

 MD met with “Raj” on Saturday for a first date and will probably see him again. She was supposed to me “B” last week, but their first meeting She had to cancel and then the second he couldn’t make, so maybe the third time is the charm. She tentatively has a date in a couple of weeks from a guy from Switzerland. He is an American who is living oversees but comes to Dallas several times a year. He will be here for a several days at the end of the month. The guys She is talking to ages range from 24 to 55. The 24 year old is former college football player but wants to try being submissive and the 55 year old is married but Wife allows him to play since She no longer wants sex.

 i tell MD that it takes about 20 guys who contact Her to find one who is worth talking to and out of those, it takes about 10 guys who She is talking to, to find one worth meeting, and even then that is not certain. MD was supposed to meet another guy on Saturday before She met “Raj” and he cancelled on Her as we were driving to meet him. Often the guys are big talkers but then back off when it actually comes to meeting. And out of the guys She meets, She may play with one out of three. So as you see it is the “law of large numbers.”  

 We are supposed to go out of town Thursday and Friday and there are a couple of guys She is talking to where we are going, so MD may have a quick date on Thursday night. Often these fall through, but MD did meet one guy that way and he was someone She really enjoyed, so you can never tell. It is exciting to watch guys flirt with MD, because She is the pro at it. i love the look in Her eyes when She is talking to another guy. Since the only sex MD gets is now with other guys, She has really flipped a switch on how active She is in talking with other guys and how much control She maintains in this area. Her sex life is in high gear and mine is soon to be locked in storage.

 Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)

As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.