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7/02/15: i occasionally read where a man says his wife agreed to put him in chastity or where she will allow him to “dress” or that she will consider taking another lover. That is not MD. MD does not allow me to dress, or agree to put me in chastity, it is what She requires. MD doesn’t take another lover because i want Her to, She has other lovers because that is what She wants. i have read where some women are a bit reluctant when they start out on a WLM or FLR, which again was not true in our case. MD immediately agreed that She should be in charge and told me that i would be responsible to obey Her completely. She gave me one year to be able to back out of this type of marriage, but told me after one year, our marriage lifestyle would become permanent. I still find it amazing that MD loves to see me dressed sissy. When i leave the house, i am to wear at least two items that are femme. The panties are the easy part, but whether it is a bra, a ladies shirt, socks, shoes or shorts, something else has to be femme. Around the house it is 100% femme unless i am working outside. i am writing this blog this morning, having just worked out in my sports bra and ladies workout shorts.
MD has also embraced cuckolding me. MD has had six different lovers since we began our WLM, and is scheduled to play with two more men this next week, if all goes well. Another guy, who is coming in from Indiana, is scheduled to see Her the following week. MD has had several “first dates” the past couple of weeks, and though several She has decided to pass on, there are a couple that She has decided She wants to see again. Some of the guys She has met without me, and a couple i have been there at the beginning of the meeting, before being “excused”. Normally, if i am to be there, we will meet someone at a sports bar that is not too far from us and then i will leave to go watch a game, while they continue to talk, until MD texts me and tells me to come back.
Though i am not currently locked in chastity, i know that is going to change in the next few weeks. i have worn various chastity cages over the years, but they were not the kind that could be worn on a more permanent basis for one reason or another. The longest i wore a chastity device was 93 days, but having to continually take it off for cleaning or because of abrasions was frustrating for MD. So over the past 18 months, MD has not had me in a chastity cage, but has required me not to play with myself without Her permission. i am glad to say, i have never broken my commitment to not cum without Her knowledge. But since She discovered a couple of designs from Mature Metal that can be worn on a permanent basis, She now has decided the time has come to lock me on a permanent basis. MD still hasn’t told me which design She ordered, but did say that She got one with the security screw and bought a bottle of “lock tight” to make sure it stays!
Out of the blue last night, MD told me to get all the e-stem tools out, that She is going to use the ten’s unit on me tonight with the connectors on the butt plug and my balls. This will be a first too! MD loves to push me to new places, always showing me that She is in total control. Last night we were sitting outside on the breezeway and MD received a call. She needed to take the call inside as there was information on the computer She had to provide. As She got up, MD snapped Her fingers, pointed at Her drink and turned and walked inside. That was way of ordering me to get Her drink and bring it to Her. There was no “please” or “will you”, MD ordered me to do something. Her attitude and power are amazing. She is the engine on this WLM train, and i am the caboose. i am to just follow where She leads and i am so lucky to be able to do so!
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.