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7/02/15:Another new term that i came across this week was “candualism”. Candualism can be defined as the enjoyment a man receives when his wife or girlfriend is displayed to others. The term can also be applied to the posting of photos or her wearing revealing clothing. i have to admit, i love when MD is displayed to others. Whether it is Her sending a revealing picture of Herself to a possible lover, or when She flashes someone, or even just Her wearing a low cut blouse and watching the guys stare, i enjoy it. MD has an incredible, curvy, sexy body and depending on what She is wearing, She can literally “stop traffic” (or at least make them swerve off the road!). MD currently has a picture of Her in a low cut dress on an Internet site, and even without Her face being shown, She receives 10-15 emails a day just off that one pic. One my favorite stories, was when i was a member of a Yahoo group for subs. MD allowed me to post a picture of Her as my Domme. Again, it was without her face showing, basically just a pic of Her boobs in a green nighty. Several months later i stumbled across another Yahoo group, for which i wasn’t even a member, and the home page pic for the group was that same pic of MD. Someone had seen Her pic and used it for their group. Even MD got a kick out of that.
Though MD is very careful about where She goes when She is dressed provocatively, sometimes just wearing a grey tight t-shirt and yoga pants, will have guys stop and stare! It is fun when we are at a store and see guys basically following Her from one isle to another. While some guys might get angry at this, i love it (thus candualism). When MD is purposely “dressed to thrill” the reaction is even better. When we go to a bar or other “adult” environments, MD has no trouble wearing something that “shows the girls off”. And depending on where we are, MD has even been known to pull the girls out!
One evening we were driving between Dallas and Ft. Worth and a guy passes us. He sees MD in the passenger seat and slows back down to stare. MD sees him staring and grins at him. He started mouthing “wow” and “you are beautiful”. This goes on for about a mile with MD, flirting with the guy driving next to us. And with a little encouragement from me, MD reaches in Her dress and pulls out the girls and flashes him. i thought he was going to pass out or wreck! Well, let’s just say he “returned the favor” and flashed Her back. Unfortunately, that was when our exit came up and we never saw him again, but i am sure he will always remember that evening.
MD and i used to be members of an adult off-premises club where we would go and dance, and MD would usually flirt with the women there, even more than the men. (There are several stories from those days!) This past month we actually joined an “on-premises” club where they have rooms at the club where couples can play. Some of these rooms are more private than others. One of my biggest fantasies is for MD to be playing with another guy in one of the public rooms and have a large group of people watch them play. MD is an incredible lover and She can definitely put on a hell of a show!
i am very lucky that MD is so beautiful, but even luckier that She allows Herself the freedom to be a flirt at times. Though i often accuse Her of having a “broken mirror”, because when She looks in the mirror or at a pic of Her, all She says She sees are flaws. All I see is my beautiful and incredibly sexy Masteress! And fortunately that is what others get to see and enjoy as well!
(Maybe one day MD will allow me to post a pic of Her on this blog to prove my point!!!)
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.