anal, bdsm, bi, bondage, bull, candualism, chastity, chastity cage, compersion, control, crossdressing, cuckold, cuckolding, denial, depends, diaper, discipline, Domme, female led marriage, female led relationship, female supremacy, femdom, femdomme, flr, hubby, humiliation, jailbird, key holder., Mature Medal, pegging, permanent chastity, queen, Queen's Keep, redhead, servant, sissy, slave, spanking, strap on, strapon, sub, subbie, submissive, tease, threesome, wife led marriage, wlm
MD has a new lover. “M” lives about 45 miles away and is a couple years younger than MD. He contacted Her off of one of the online sites and they have texted and talked several times the past few weeks. MD felt so comfortable with him, that She waived Her “first date” rule with him. MD took off Monday afternoon from work and met him at a hotel about halfway between them. He met Her in the lobby of the hotel and then they went up to his room. MD didn’t tell me much about their play time, but did mention that he didn’t last as long as he said he was capable. (Very few do with MD!)
“M” also came over to our house yesterday for a repeat performance. i had taken the day off from work to do a few projects, one of which was to take the dog to the vet. While i was gone, “M” came over to see MD. i knew he was coming over, as MD had me get out the box of condoms he left with Her on Monday and to make sure the bedroom was ready. (Including having the flowers beside the bed that he had bought Her on Monday.) He was still in the house when i got back from the vet, so i kenneled our dog and waited in our travel trailer, as i didn’t want to disturb them by going into the house. MD texted me when he left and i took MD Her drink from Starbucks that She had told me to bring back. When i walked in, MD told me i had some clean up in the bedroom, not just the normal condom wrappers and towels, but it seemed that while riding on top of “M”, MD knocked something off the wall. (MD met me at the door wearing her silky black robe and the negligee She wore for “M” and one of Her boobs was still hanging out of the negligee!) Damn She looked sexy!!
It is amazing to know that “M” has already had more sex with MD than i have this year and he sounds like he is going to be one of MD’s regulars, similar to “D”. His work schedule is a bit flexible and he doesn’t mind driving to Her. MD also feels very comfortable with him. The only problem She has with him is that he wants to text her all the time. MD asked, why can’t guys understand that She just wants sex and She isn’t looking for a lot of ongoing communication. i tried to explain that these guys are so excited to meet someone like Her, that they want to enjoy that high. (He sent Her six texts within an hour after leaving.)
MD also got rid of one lover this past week. She found out that he lied to Her and MD told him “bye”. He had been pestering about getting together again anyway, so MD was not very disappointed to set him free. MD has three other guys that She has already had a first date with and will probably see again. Two of them live out of town, so they have to work on scheduling when they can meet and the other is a builder who is in the middle of a big project, so his time is limited too. MD is also in the middle of a major project at work, so getting schedules aligned is one of the more difficult aspects of Her dating life.
MD is also supposed to see “J” on Sunday, so if that happens MD will have had four dates this week with three different lovers. (She saw “D” on Tuesday.) It is amazing to see how comfortable MD is right now with all the guys (and a couple of women) She is either talking to, or seeing. “M” noticed that the flowers he bought were beside the bed and asked if it bothered me that they were there. MD said no, and though She didn’t really understand why i was so comfortable with Her having lovers, it was all good. i don’t know if i can explain why i love that MD has other lovers. Part of it is knowing that She needs sex and these guys play a role that i can’t. But it also the fact, that She is in complete control. She doesn’t ask me if She can play with someone, She chooses who and when She wants to play and i have no say in it. There is a power in Her sex life that is almost impossible to describe. When Her sex life is active, MD’s batteries are charged. She has more energy and feels better. i love the confidence She has when She knows that guys are chasing after and wanting to be with Her.
After “M” left and i cleaned up the room, i asked MD permission to take a short nap. It was amazing to crawl into the same bed that less than an hour ago, MD had another lover. As i laid there starting to fall asleep, i was thinking how lucky i was to have such an amazingly hot and sexy wife and MD!
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.