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Mistress D or ‘MD’ Perspective

11 Sunday May 2014

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I am the Domme half of MDsh and the wife, best friend, lover, and leader of sh.

We are more than just playing with the ‘lifestyle’, we are actually living our dream. My sh (sub hubby, sissy husband) means so much to me that I want to be his protector even though he could more than take care of himself in any given situation. He is amazingly smart, caring, and my sub hubby.

We are real, I am the Domme and he is my sub. I am responsible for every decision in our lives and I take this role very seriously. I am in control of our finances, our direction in life, our future, and his safety.

I did not know what a Domme was at the time, but have been one since grade school. I also, at the time did not know what ‘Bi’ meant, but later found out that I was that also and had been since grade school. I thought about being in charge of girls and boys and was very attracted to both for as long as I can remember. I did not act on my Bi side until I was modeling in my 20’s and with all those gorgeous nude bodies changing clothes behind the curtains it was pretty easy to determine who was also interested in me. Now I say model, but it was only for a nationwide department store and their catalogs (they were a very high end store and yes, you have heard of them).

I have cuckold my sh in the past and about to do it again. I have found a new lover and very excited to play with him. My new lover and I text/talk daily and we are on the same page on how we want our relationship. I will also be actively looking for a woman to be my lover in the very near future as well.

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Dancing

10 Saturday May 2014

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Our Relationship- first paragraph same each post:
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.

Learning to Follow:
It has been a month today since MD and i committed to a full time Wife Led Marriage. It has definitely been a learning experience. As with any new adventure, there have been a few ups and downs, but it has also been one of the best months of my life. MD asked me a couple of nights ago if i saw this as some kind of game we were playing or has the reality set in that this was the new us. i don’t see our new relationship as something we are “playing at” but it is still a hard to grasp the fact that MD is now in total control of my life. We discussed that even though MD was my Masteress, She was also my wife, my best friend and my lover. Some days MD may be stricter with me as my Domme and some days She may be more lenient depending on how She is relating to me at that time. My role is to respond to Her as She leads me. In my mind i equate it to dancing (which i suck at!) Her responsibility is to lead, mine is to follow. Sometimes the steps may be precise and sometimes the movement may be more free flowing. My role is not to set the pace or style, mine is to follow MD’s lead. i love where we are headed and i will clumsily follow where She leads us.