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Toys: 10/24/14: One of MD’s “boy toys” asked a question the other day and i wasn’t able to respond with a good answer. He asked, “What was the favorite toy that MD used on me?” She poised that question to me and i couldn’t come up with a response at that moment. We have collected a lot of “toys” over the years. They are kept in several large storage bins in our “play area”. There are too many to list, but here are some categories:
Whips/Paddles – MD purchased a set of whips and paddles from a pro Domme several years ago. They include floggers, wooden and acrylic paddles, and riding whips. MD will also use everyday instruments on occasion such as ping pong paddle or wooden spoon as well.
CBT – We have several types of CBT toys, one of which is the “humbler” (http://www.thechaingang.com/the-man-humbler.html). We also have a device that is basically a vise that smashes my balls with the turn of wing nuts that control the pressure. She also has parachutes and weights that can be used on either my dick or balls. We also have three different versions of chastity cages when MD so chooses.
Female Clothing – i have a wig, dresses, hose, bra, shoes, and even “fake boobs”. Though i am not very passible, MD will dress me and even put make up on me and drive me around or have me sit outside with Her.
Anal – MD has numerous anal toys at Her disposal. We have a spectrum, several dildos, a strap-on harness, plugs, prostrate massagers and Her newest toy (which She hasn’t used on me yet) an Anal Hook. (http://www.analhook.org/)
Restraints/Gags/Blindfolds – These include various handcuffs, belts, gags, blindfolds, wrist/ankle restraints, neck collars, and even a thumb lock.
Misc. – Which includes such things as a Sex Swing, pee funnels (where she can pee in and it goes into a gag with a tube in it so there is no way for me to stop it from flowing into my mouth), a cage (a 4×6 gage MD can lock me in) and a spanking/pegging bench.
Though there are several things that bring back wonderful memories and/or makes me excited about Her using on me again, the toy that i most enjoy is the one MD is excited about using. i use to ask Her to use certain things on me and though fun, nothing takes the place of being at MD’s mercy and seeing Her eyes light up when She has a wicked thought. It isn’t the toy that is exciting, it is the toy in the hands of the Masteress.
Our Relationship: (Repeating on Each Blog)
As of 4/7/14, my relationship with my Wife of 16 years, changed from me being naturally submissive to Her to one where we now live fulltime in a “Wife Led Marriage” (WLM) relationship. She is now in total control of all financial, life and daily decisions. She is recognized as the unquestioned authority of our marriage and my life. My role is to be the “sh” to Her “MD”. “sh” is Her way of reminding me that i am Her “sissy”, “submissive”, “servant” and “slave” husband. The MD is “Masteress D (Her name)” or “My Domme”.